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Her cause is great, just the execution is misplaced


I get that she wants to say that females can be as sexual as the males. but I don't think she's doing it right when she is always displayed as a victim in all of her pornos.

I could get it if she willingly directs explicit stuff with healthy sexual acts between a man and a woman or that a woman uses her sexuality in a healthy way.

(Hard) porn stuff is always about degrading women and people are either willingly curious or just beep up in the head themselves to watch them as a habit so I'm not sure where sasha is coming from when she said she wants to liberate female sexuality or whatever.

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but I still think males are a lot more sexual than females

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Russians have used her image as a fictional Russian nurse, Sasha Serova, raped and executed by Ukrainian troops.(Serova is russian for grey).

Did not take long for the story to be exposed as rubbish. Grey commented "I love my
Russian fans but this is taking propaganda too far."

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Now she understands the real 'message' of her former "professional" job.

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What?

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oh sorry, lol.

I misread your post.

I thought it really happened - didn't pay attention to the last line you posted.


I wasn't talking about that "execution". I was talking about her motive for getting into porn, her supposed "cause" and the 'execution' she did for that cause.

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(Hard) porn stuff is always about degrading women and people are either willingly curious or just beep up in the head themselves to watch them as a habit so I'm not sure where sasha is coming from when she said she wants to liberate female sexuality or whatever.

Have you considered the possibility that many women enjoy being sexually degraded? You're confusing how a woman wants to be treated outside the bedroom with how a woman wants to be treated in bed. Not all women prefer sex to be tender, loving and caring, a lot more women than you probably care to imagine like rough sex in which (with their consent) they're taken control of and/or dominated. Granted, Sasha's stuff sometimes goes beyond basic rough sex into fetish territory but you know what? Some women have fetishes too. I think her goal was to convey the fact that women can be just as sexually excited by hardcore stuff as men can, and that it's shortsighted to assume every woman on the receiving end in porn is somehow being victimized. These days a lot of women "top from the bottom", this means that although they appear to be the one being controlled, they're actually the one implicitly in control. What you perceive as humiliation is closer to role play.

What you seem to be suggesting is that it's okay for women to feel sexually liberated as long as they're having the kind of sex you imagine them to like, rather than the kind of sex they actually like.






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What you seem to be suggesting is that it's okay for women to feel sexually liberated as long as they're having the kind of sex you imagine them to like, rather than the kind of sex they actually like.

I am willing to bet most women don't like the kind of sex sasha grey portrays in most of her videos, yes.

I am not saying most women like the "kind, tender approach" you were saying either.



licking a toilet seat is definitely not sexy for a lot of women.

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Like I said, those are the sort of fetish scenes I mentioned which are marketed more toward people with similar tastes, her mainstream work is not that fetish-based.







Valar morghulis

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Those are few and far in between.

Normal people don't have those fetishes...

seems like the point you're proving is that sasha grey is a weirdo and is for weirdo people....which isn't necessarily a bad thing....but you question her if she's even mentally stable to choose porno as a profession where she knows she would be sucking dirty cums (god knows where they were at first), punched, degraded, spat on...etc...no wonder she looks dazed and a soulless machine in that tyra banks show.

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