I would say this to her if I were her parent…
I’m Asian, part Chinese, so…
I’d tell her to stop slouching all the time. Stand straight! Dress better! How she expect to find good husband dressing like a slop? She getting older, I would want a grandchild.
Also, what is wrong with name? So strange, I can’t pronounce at all!
That said, she’s really great in The Farewell. She should do more of that and less Crazy Asians and definitely less Shangchi (that was a junk film).