Not that hot
I mean he is better looking than your regular felon.
shareHe's more of a model type, I agree not all that hot, but still hot.
What's interesting about his features, and the reaction to them, is that he has a really even mix of "tough-as-nails gang member" and "pretty metrosexual male model who probably isn't straight."
It's like good race mixtures, they can capture the best features of the two. A few weeks ago I saw a clearly latina girl with olive skin, but definitely half white, and nose/cheek freckles darker than her skin.
Just stunning. I couldn't stop looking.
Just stunning. I couldn't stop looking.Why don't you give him your number?
That comment was about a female:
"A few weeks ago I saw a clearly latina girl with olive skin, but definitely half white, and nose/cheek freckles darker than her skin.
Just stunning. I couldn't stop looking."
Did you only read the last line or something? Good Lord.
What about this part: 'He's more of a model type, I agree not all that hot, but still hot.
What's interesting about his features, and the reaction to them, is that he has a really even mix of "tough-as-nails gang member" and "pretty metrosexual male model who probably isn't straight."'
It was an analysis of his features and an estimate of possibly why he became popular.
It also wasn't what you quoted, obviously.
Damn Malko. Looks like you owe Froggy an apology. You clearly didn't read his OP right.
shareI'm pretty sure Frog is a woman with at least some "sapphic" leanings & I'm %100 sure she is a devout feminist. She's alright on ideologically neutral topics.
Malko is being disingenuous though as i have previously noticed.
Shouldn't We All Try to Get Along?
In everything we do?
Why would anyone try to act otherwise?
I just don't get it
Calling someone a 'moron' is not ideal, but neither is singing the praises of a violent criminal simply because they have great cheekbones. Do I lie?
shareYes, you do lie because Frog wasn't "singing his praises" simply commenting on what makes the man physically attractive. He is someone considered good looking by a large segment of the population and Frog was trying to explain what physical characteristics he possesses that makes that the case. You have to see the hypocrisy in calling him a moron while calling on others to try to get along even if you won't acknowledge it. Likewise you criticized me in another thread for "sanctimonious bullshit" while seemingly having no problem shoveling plenty of it yourself.
As far as him being a violent criminal, unless I'm mistaken he served over 2 years in prison. He doesn't really sound like someone I would like and since I don't follow professional modeling I have no dog in this fight. That said, as far as I'm concerned he served his time and once released was free to pursue whatever he wants (within the confines of the law) to make a living. Many people make mistakes but if they're not given a chance to be better they never will be.
That said, as far as I'm concerned he served his time and once released was free to pursue whatever he wants (within the confines of the law) to make a living. Many people make mistakes but if they're not given a chance to be better they never will be.Hogwash!
Hogwash!
There is no bigger advocate for rehabilitation and second chances than me, BUT, there are millions of good, law-abiding, decent people, like me, who have never assaulted anyone and yet have never been given any opportunities to fulfil any of their dreams. Why should a VIOLENT criminal who assaulted a CHILD, be given preference over decent and moral people?
I don't begrudge giving opportunities to lowlifes and fuck-ups. What I do begrudge is giving opportunities to lowlifes and fuck-ups ahead of good people. That ain't right.
Am I wrong?!?
From Wikipedia: "In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy when he was 18. After taking a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison, during which he admitted to being a member of the North Side Gangster Crips"
And yes, just because I call people what they are, 'lowlifes' and 'scumbags' (how would you describe this vile human-being?), it doesn't mean I'm against them being integrated back into society.
Still, you have yet to justify why people with a record for serious acts of violent crime should be given preference over law-abiding citizens like myself who, despite having done nothing to harm anyone else, have nevertheless suffered (I for instance was punished as a mere 14-year-old simply for having a mental illness, despite never having abused or assaulted anyone - then again, I guess I wasn't 'pretty' enough to deserve better, right?)
From Wikipedia: "In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy when he was 18. After taking a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison, during which he admitted to being a member of the North Side Gangster Crips"
And yes, just because I call people what they are, 'lowlifes' and 'scumbags' (how would you describe this vile human-being?), it doesn't mean I'm against them being integrated back into society.
Still, you have yet to justify why people with a record for serious acts of violent crime should be given preference over law-abiding citizens like myself who, despite having done nothing to harm anyone else, have nevertheless suffered (I for instance was punished as a mere 14-year-old simply for having a mental illness, despite never having abused or assaulted anyone - then again, I guess I wasn't 'pretty' enough to deserve better, right?)
I have no problem in principle with second chances. On the contrary, I 100% support them, for everyone, including former gang members, former rapists, former terrorists, former white supremacists, and so on.
I know very few people who would share my willingness to give all those types of people second chances, assuming they have served their time.
What I staunchly object to is giving such people preferential treatment and opportunities ahead of the vast millions of people who have been screwed over by society despite having done nothing wrong.
I'm not saying 'don't give chances to ex-criminals'. I'm simply saying that there are millions of decent people who have been denied first chances. Why aren't we putting those people first?
This is why the free market needs to be dismantled. It is fundamentally amoral. Only through state interference can it be moulded into an instrument of fairness that rewards virtue and decency ahead of materialistic bullshit.
And frankly your complacency, even apparent approval, towards the market's amorality is concerning.
If the market was more moral, society would, as a consequence, be forced to become more moral (i.e. The Golden Rule - if you want to be treated well, treat others well).
You really have to stop saying things like "I know very few people who would share my willingness to give all those types of people second chances, assuming they have served their time" when the rest of your post shows this isn't true. With millions in line ahead of them, you are effectively shutting them down from getting the second chance you claim to be in favor of. Again, they have paid their price and if a company wants to take a chance on them at that point, that is their right.
As for you being concerned about my complacency or apparent approval toward the market's amorality, honestly just stop dude. You know NOTHING about me. Maybe I'm one of those people that needed someone to take a second chance on them who'd be in a very different and far worse place than I would had someone not been willing to do that. Or maybe I'm one of the millions of the decent people who you'd deem is deserving of opportunities ahead of former criminals. The point is either way I'm very comfortable with my moral compass and don't need any guidance from you regarding that.
Maybe I'm one of those people that needed someone to take a second chance on them who'd be in a very different and far worse place than I would had someone not been willing to do that. Or maybe I'm one of the millions of the decent people who you'd deem is deserving of opportunities ahead of former criminals. The point is either way I'm very comfortable with my moral compass and don't need any guidance from you regarding that.That's nice.
You display pity for the people who I am 'effectively shutting down from getting the second chance you claim to be in favour of', yet once again you miss the point. Let's flip what you're saying for a moment. If those criminals and felons are not at the back of the line, who is? Good people. Decent people. People who have done the right thing all there lives and are still being effectively told, by people like you, that it's 'okay' for criminals and felons to go ahead of them.
Once again, by putting the onus on me to explain my position, which I have done time and time again (i.e. I am not against giving ex-convicts second chances, as long as they are not given preferential treatment ahead of virtuous people), you are evading my challenge to you, to explain why it's acceptable for good people to be left on the scrapheap?
If the "virtuous" people miss out on one opportunity, there are hundreds if not thousands of others for them to pursue. The majority of those avenues are shut down for convicted felons regardless of whether or not they have completed their sentence. It's not rocket science.Speaking from personal experience, that is not what I've observed.
Of all the male and female models out there, how many are convicted felons? How about in other industries, what percent are convicted felons? Any actual statistics to back up your claim that all of these hiring managers are immoral and virtuous people such as yourself are being passed over in their favor? Or is this one guy who got a modeling gig enough for you to declare widespread immoral hiring practices?
Also you don't need to constantly be saying what a fine upstanding and virtuous person you are; we all get the picture already.
Also you don't need to constantly be saying what a fine upstanding and virtuous person you are; we all get the picture already.I'm not sure you do. I keep getting told what a prick I am.
Besides, my point isn't about me per se. It's a general point about fine upstanding and virtuous people.
Also, one doesn't have to be a convicted criminal to be an asshole.
The market, as it stands, is antithetical to ethical business.
Businesses that can cut corners, that can hire workers who are prepared to break rules and undercut other, more ethical, companies, are primed to thrive in a free market.
That is why, contrary to Trump and the Brexit mob, we need MORE legislation and MORE so-called 'red tape', not less. The natural implication of the UK leaving the EU and tearing up all the workers rights and environmental protections that presently govern British companies, is a race to the bottom.
We should refuse to trade with countries, like China, with shoddy human rights records, and instead improve our own workers rights and environmental protections, in cooperation with other democratic and ethically-minded states.
That is why we need a more socialist society. A society that rewards ethical practices and punishes cheats and crooks. And by refusing to trade with other cheats and crooks, and only trade with other likeminded nations, we can cripple the unethical, the greedy, and the corrupt, and allow the good and virtuous to flourish economically and laugh all the way to the bank.
This man is super hot! From his piercing blue eyes, full lips, and chiseled features, this man represents the best of both worlds.
shareYeah except for the fact he is a low life criminal and all ...
shareI thought we were discussing his looks, not his criminal history. As far as my being shallow, I disagree as well. How is it shallow to see and identify something or someone that looks good?
I really think his baby blues have riled some of you, and I understand.
You're very shallow.
Try looking for good-looking guys who aren't criminals and scumbags. Some of us exist, you know.
Maybe it's your incessant virtue signaling, blatant hypocrisy, and perpetual woe-is-me victimhood vibe that turns off the ladies.
The fact that he's apparently better looking than you are has you really triggered and lashing out at anyone that compliments his looks. You're acting like a petty and petulant child. You seriously need to get a grip and grow up.
If you're not getting the attention of the ladies that you think you deserve, then it's something about you. Stop trying to blame the world for your own shortcomings.
This is absolutely beyond hilarious.
You're comparing me unfavourably to a man who physically assaulted a CHILD, and then cheated on the mother of his own child.
Basically you're saying that thuggery, criminality and cheating are more attractive or acceptable traits than 'virtue signaling' (basically a term of abuse for anyone who displays virtue), 'blatant hypocrisy', and 'perpetual woe-is-me victimhood' (sure, because scumbags who get away with everything are so much more admirable than those decent people who have been genuinely hard-done by...)
I don't particularly crave attention from any ladies. I am not some pathetic incel. I just resent the idea that a scumbag like this individual is seen by some people as more attractive than genuinely conscientious and moral people.
As for my 'shortcomings', are you suggesting that someone who spends their week in the community volunteering and campaigning for social justice, fighting for women's rights and supporting young offenders to pay back to the community and maximise their life chances (yes, contrary to what SamGerard thinks about me, I do work towards giving criminals second chances), and against homophobia and anti-Semitism, among other types of bigotry, for no personal reward whatsoever, is some sort of loser or undesirable? Hmm...interesting...
What a pathetic and sad society we are...
Stop putting words in my mouth when I said none of those things. You're obviously having to straw man me for things I never said because you know how pathetic you're acting.
I'm commenting on your specific behavior, calling anyone who compliments this guy's looks as 'shallow' even going so far as to wrongly call Frogarama a 'moron' for praising his looks. No, that's just you acting like a jealous and petulant child mad at the world because you think yourself so morally superior.
But guess what? No one was commenting on his criminal past or whether they'd date him. This thread is specifically about his looks. Yet you take compliments of his looks personally. Like what normal person does that? You're seriously struggling with mental health issues of your own to take compliments of someone else's physical beauty personally. If you want to live up to your constant virtue signaling you owe everyone on this thread you've unfairly insulted an apology. But I suspect you won't because you come across like one of those pseudo-virtuous holier-than-thou hypocrites.
'pseudo-virtuous'?
Really?
You question my virtue? Because I've questioned our collective celebration of a man who physically assaulted a sixteen year-old boy?
Does this man's physical appearance really deserve any commentary after all the shitty things he's done?
You're right.
I do owe certain people here an apology. You're also right about my mental health issues. I have severe mood swings that cause me to express myself in harsher terms than I should on occasion.
It's simply that I am angry about the lack of morality and fairness we display as a society, even among the most otherwise decent and reasonable of us, including the various people I have, unfairly, attacked here. The people commenting on this man's looks are not wrong per se, but I can't help thinking that they're also contributing in part to the overall materialism and amorality of our market-based society when surely we should all start by unequivocally criticising any person who commits a violent criminal act, no matter how physically gorgeous they may be.
I think if you're really honest with yourself you'd recognize it goes deeper than just a general sense of social injustice when you would deeply personalize compliments of this guy's looks like it was a slight against you. That's why I'm calling your mental health into question.
If if was truly just about saying, hey, why are we praising this guy's looks without looking at his character, that would be a reasonable even if OT tangent.
But instead you were attacking anyone who praised this guy's physical looks as if they had just personally attacked you. That's definitely not normal and certainly appears indicative of deeper mental health insecurities that goes beyond just mood swings. But I'm glad to see you're at least capable of recognizing how unreasonable you were acting and appear genuine in your desire to make amends.
But maybe I am particularly sensitive to the general injustice because of personal experience.
I'm sure my own experiences aren't entirely unique and are in fact indicative of a wider pattern of unfairness.
Well, but as we learn the hard truth when we're little kids, life's not fair. Some are born with innate characteristics that makes life a whole lot easier for them than others. In this case it's physical beauty that lets those that are blessed with it leapfrog everyone else in spite of what you view should be an irreconcilable liability in this guy's criminal background.
That you still haven't come to peace with this truth about life as a grown man I think must be symptomatic of poorly coped with painful life experiences that caused your level of emotional regression. I'm sympathetic to whatever you may have experienced to have personalized this elementary sense of inequity in the world. But I hope you recognize it's hardly healthy to obsess over, much less blame others for, when it's not something that you can have any hope to change. The high value society places on physical beauty was honed from hundreds of thousands of years of the evolution of our species. We all unconsciously place high intrinsic value on it because it's instinctual.
To be honest I'm not even bemoaning the fact that some people get automatic advantages for their physical appearance. I should do, on principle, but on a personal level, I honestly think I am fairly good-looking (I could be utterly deluded, but as big an arse as I can be, I think I'm fairly honest with myself, and I'm mostly going on the basis of what other people, women and men, have told me). Thus, I have no intrinsic basis for begrudging such advantages.
My beef is with this guy, a former violent criminal and a cheat who abandoned the mother of his child.
I'm not going to pretend that I'm as naturally good-looking as this guy, but in the context of his criminal past and his feckless approach to women, I don't think I'm [/i]that[i] much of a downgrade.
I'm no 10/10, but on a good day I could probably pass for a low 8/10, with the added bonus that I have half a brain and a conscience.
You can tell by reading his long winded, angry posts, bragging about being an 8/10, this guy is an incel. Luckily his account was deleted.
shareThat's great that you work with young offenders. Do you call them "low life's" and "fuck-ups" to their face and let them know no employer should hire them until they've hired the millions of non-offenders first virtually limiting any potential opportunity beyond minimum wage jobs or do you reserve the nastier comments for behind their backs and on message boards?
shareTo be fair, the young people I work with are younger than 18, and most, albeit not all, of them have been charged with less serious offences than the violent assault of younger children.
Also, none of them, to my knowledge, have been plucked from obscurity to become fashion models on the basis of a mugshot.
To be fair, you're right. True rehabilitation means that we effectively allow the slate to be cleaned, and give former offenders the opportunity to be treated equally with non-offenders, assuming the former have done their time. In principle, what you're saying is right.
But, forget principle for a moment. Don't you think it's unfair that so many law-abiding and non-criminal people have been consigned to the economic and professional scrapheap? Don't you think it's time we started helping those people, as well as helping ex-cons to rehabilitate?
You're right to hold me to account for referring to certain individuals as 'lowlifes' and 'fuck-ups' (although to be fair, I think many of the young offenders I meet would admit they've 'fucked-up'). That is not, admittedly, a very charitable way of putting things on my part. But once again, it all comes back to how angry I am about the way so many poor and struggling non-criminals have been treated by society.
Sometimes it feels that the only way society will take notice of those people at the bottom of the social hierarchy is for those people to do something outrageous, even criminal.
I remember my dad, an ex-firefighter, once telling me that it was always those colleagues who'd screwed up or committed some form of misconduct who ended up with promotions, and not those decent firefighters who kept their heads down and got on with the job, because the top brass would always remember the ones who'd be brought into their office to account for bad behaviour.
That is a microcosm of what I'm talking about here. Sometimes it actually pays to be bad. Look at this Jeremy Meeks. He was discovered via a mugshot.
You make a good point: So he's good-looking, so what? He was born with that gift. It's character that's important in the long run. For instance, say a guy marries the proverbial young, hot babe, but she's materialistic and constantly needs attention from other men. The marriage is doomed.
shareSure, but the guy still married the proverbial young, hot babe, and surely got a few innings in the sack before the marriage ended.
After all, it's better to be a has-been than a never-was.
lolz! I completely follow you 100% on that. :)
shareThanks for being so reasonable, despite our earlier differences.
I have a lot of time and respect for people who are able to forgive, or, at the very least, set aside differences and disagreements.
Thank you. I respect you more for it too. I try to cherish it when it happens because it is pretty rare.
shareSure, but the guy still married the proverbial young, hot babe, and surely got a few innings in the sack before the marriage ended.
After all, it's better to be a has-been than a never-was.
It is shallow, but I don't think it's as ethically dubious as praising a violent criminal simply for their cheekbones and piercing eyes.
And I am mostly speaking figuratively. I don't tend to engage in one-night stands, and I wouldn't hook up with someone, even a hypothetical supermodel, on the expectation that it wasn't going to amount to something more substantial than a night in the sack.
As a concept, it's nice to consider, but in reality my conscience would get in the way.
If i didn't know better. I thought you were talking about a young Christopher Reeve. And he played Superman.
shareYeah i always wanted someone who would shiv my friend and family while i wasn't looking.
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