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Am I the only person who found this movie dated?


Just got through watching the DVD; being a great fan of Jack Lemmon (the man is almost a god to me) and an appreciator of Blake Edwards's comedies, I was bitterly disappointed to discover the way this film had almost pitifully dated. I found the movie so overtly pious in its delivery of its 'message' that I was laughing at some of the scenes that should have had me weeping. I'm thinking particularly of that rather strange scene towards the end where Lemmon breaks into a bar to steal a drink, only to have the bar owner emerge and pour the bottle over him while cackling manically. I almost thought I was watching REEFER MADNESS all over again! I found the film generally too heavy-handed. I have just recently watched Billy Wilder's 'THE LOST WEEKEND' (1945), a film that I don't think has aged a day in it's grim depiction of a descent into alcoholism. I think it's because WEEKEND, like 'TRAINSPOTTING' (1996), shows the effects, and attraction, of alcoholism/drug use and encourages the viewer to form their own opinion, rather than the moralising that takes place in ROSES, where alcohol is presented without any seductive quality. I never saw the attraction that either Lemmon or Remick had to the bottle, and was therefore unsympathetic to their plight. Anyway, this isn't a post designed to rile people who loved the movie, but I do feel as if I've missed something and was interested to know if anyone else feels similarly.

Glumpy.

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Well, I disagree with you. I didn't find the *situations* funny, I found Edwards' unsubtle treatments of them funny, epitomised by the manically cakling barman, who seemed more like Freddy Krueger than a realistic human character. Even in a movie like 'REEFER MADNESS' to see someone deteriorating because of drugs is definitely not funny; movies like that are made funny for their melodramatic treatment. I apologise if I gave the impression of being an insensitive lout with a 'sick' sense of humour, I'll reitierate: the situations weren't funny, it was the treatment that made them melodramatically ludicrous.

As for it being made in 1962, the thematically similar 'THE LOST WEEKEND' was made in 1945 and feels as if it hasn't aged a day. It's unfair of me to excuse a movie as being 'from 1962' when a movie 'from 1945' (61 years ago) has barely aged a day. I'm confused by your reply: your opening implies it needs to be seen in a historical context, but then you say it's a film that still holds up well after 44 years. Which side of the fence are you on?

As for the seductive quality of the alcohol, I felt this was *never* detailed, the ending showed a woman who had descended into the sickness of alcoholism to the point where she couldn't/wouldn't emerge. It's a sad situation, but the booze itself is not presented as seductive, but as a trap that cannot be escaped from. Throughout the film, (eg. the greenhouse, the first seriously drunk scene where Lemmon wakes his baby), the 'high' of alcohol is never presented; perhaps I have been spoiled by exposure to Danny Boyle's 'TRAINSPOTTING' (1996) which showed a far more realistic view of addiction: that on some level, at least for a while, the drug of choice does give the user some pleasure. When the pleasure turns to addiction, there begins the problem. Since DOWAR never showed this process, I could feel the gears of the plot manipulating me to provoke a certain kind of response: the evil of alcohol, a conclusion I would rather have been allowed to draw myself.

Ultimately, I feel the movie failed in what it set out to do mainly from Edwards' unsubtle direction. I feel Lemmon could have been kept on something of a tighter leash (as much as I love him, let loose he can be something of an over-mannered performer). It saddens me to have formed this opinion about a movie made by so many people I have respect for, but for me I'll watch THE LOST WEEKEND again, a movie that trusted its audience to receive its message without feeling the need to tell them how to think, I'd rather not be spoon-fed thanks!

Glumpy.

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I'm with you on this one, Glumpy. Many years ago I rented the film expecting to see a classic and I couldn't believe how bad it was. To call it unsubtle is an undestatement. Every point is sledgehammered home. Nothing about the movie rang true to me. The scenes of the couple getting drunk and,--jumping up and down on the bed?--made me feel embarassed for everyone concerned. To make things worse, the movie had an unreal, almost cartoonish feel to it, which was often the case with Blake Edwards, a director whose appeal I've never been able to understand.

The IMDB reviews I've read have mostly been glowing, which genuinely surprises me. What's more, many of the people who extravagantly praised the film were themselves recovering alcholics or people intimately familiar with alcoholism and how it works. As a son of an alcoholic who had some drinking problems when I was younger I must say that this surprises me. I've never seen or known any alcoholics who behaved like the ones in this movie.

It's difficult to dramatize alcoholism, as so much of what makes a person drink is internal and therefore difficult to show. Eugene O'Neill dealt brilliantly with the psychology of alcohlism and addiction in general and how it plays out in families, with the emphasis on relationships, lying, unresolved issues, unmet needs, low self-esteem and other such things that drive people to drink.

As to movies, The Lost Weekend strikes me as vastly superior to Days Of Wine and Roses, honing in, as it were, on one person and his demons. Though textbookish in some respects this earlier film gives the viewer a good sense of what drove its main character to drink (a sense of failure, compensatory fantasizing, problems with intimacy) so that we get a sense of a real person grappling with real issue and his battle with the bottle. The later film actually seems more old-fashioned and by the numbers to me. The acting is good but the writing is mediocre at best. I think that Days Of Wine and Roses is a terrible movie, but I'm apparently in the minority on this, at least on the IMDB.

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I stand for the majority of people who really loved this movie, but I DO see your point. Let me explain:

I think that the greenhouse scene was a little overdone, but I want to take you back to a similiar scene in The Lost Weekend. Ray Milland is frantically searching for his hidden bottle of alcohol, like Lemmon in Days of Wine and Roses. Though the actual performance is fine, the music is what ruined it for me. I'm a huge music lover and I think that when score or a pop song is put into a certain scene it can have a wonderful affect, but if it's too overdone or done too often, it can take something away from the already fine scene. I think that's what ruined it for me in The Lost Weekend. The music was trying to make the film more dramatic than it already was. I know it's a small part of the film, but it stood out for me.

I think that the two main components of the film that makes it so brilliant for the majority of IMDb users here are 1) The performances and 2) the central love story. Despite the greenhouse scene, in the quiet moments of the film, you can practically see the sorrow on Jack Lemmon's face. And he utterly broke my heart in the last scene of the film, when he cries out for his estranged wife's name, runs towards the door to catch her, but then hesitates. It's in his body language, the way he delivers the line, ect. that makes it so powerful. Lee Remick matched Lemmon's talent. I utterly believed her transformation from sweet secretary to lonely alcoholic. Lee Remick had the most expressive eyes and I could probably watch this movie on mute and completely understand the emotions of her character because of her eyes. The chemistry shared between the two was unbelievable. The way they delivered their lines and just looked at each other, I really felt like they were married in real life. I guess everybody wants to believe in love, and they want to fall in love with love on-screen; that's my theory as to why so many people like myself love Days of Wine and Roses so much.

One last thing that I didn't like about The Lost Weekend was the ending. The whole film was a draining, utterly realistic portrayal of alcoholism, and then it takes a 180 when the protagonist has a "Well, Clarence, I want to live again!" moment. That was the biggest clichee of the whole film. It felt like the movie was saying, "Well, alcoholism is bad and too much of addiction will make you want to kill yourself, but maybe if you're REALLY lucky, you'll get a girl who'll convince you to write the novel about your life which is actually the movie you just watched!" It felt like false hope. The ending to Days of Wine and Roses was more tragic and in the end, more realistic. Alcoholism can impair your judgement, and most of the time it gets so bad that you either relapse, die, or realize that love can't actually conquer all. It's sad but it's life.

I think that film-making wise, The Lost Weekend is far superior, but I still prefer Days of Wine and Roses. Despite the two over-done scenes, I love the performances, I love their chemistry, I love the black and white cinematography, I love the love story, and I think that the last shot will linger in my memory for years to come.

Current Favorite Song: "It's Only Fear"--Alexi Murdoch

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First off, thanks for the civility of your response, rare these days on the IMDB and on the internet in general. When I saw a response to my post here I expected hate, vitriol and name-calling. It's pleaseant indeed to find such a Rodney Kingish (sic) reply.

I think that a lot of what makes a film (or novel or any work of art) work for a person is when and how one encounters it. Frame of mind is everything. There are composers I loved when I was young because they expressed my emotions exactly. In retrospect they were not, many of them, all that great, but they did a lot for me at a certain time in my life, and that's all that matters. This is true for a lot of what happens in life, maybe most things. I can be quite subjective and objective regarding such things. Where the hell was I going with this?--oh, Days Of Wine and Roses--I obviously caught it at the wrong time, expecting a different sort of movie, more nuanced, with more eloquent or at least sensitive writing. The film undoubtedly does have some very strong points, which passed me by but obviously affected others profoundly. I didn't pay that close attention to the acting. Jack Lemmon always seemed better in comedy, especially when he was young (he's heartbreaking in Glengarry Glen Ross much later on), while Lee Remick (sigh) I find it hard to see as anything but eye candy. My fault, for sure, but her beauty is so mesmerizing I find it difficult to focus on her acting, which is indeed often excellent. Charles Bickford, as Remick's father, seemed the most anchored in reality of the actors in the movie, and gave for me the most credible performance. (Oddly, all three major actors are from Boston, or the greater Boston area, which I only point out because that's where I'm from. I think that they interact so well in the movie is probably partly due to this,--despite the San Francisco setting--as they speak similarly in many ways. Bickford not only looks like he could be Remick's father, he sounds it, too.)

To compare Days Of Wind and Roses to The Lost Weekend is unfair, or maybe cruel, as Billy Wilder was a master of the film medium and Blake Edwards wasn't. There's a technical perfection to his film, a kind of high wire professionalism, that only a handful of directors possess. I've seen it at least a dozen times and always find something new or interesting in it that I hadn't noticed before. The last time I focused in on Philip Terry's performance as Milland's brother, Wick, and how firm and gentle he was; he was like a good male nurse, the total opposite of the bad one Milland encounters later in the film. The bad one was like the way the world really is, harsh and uncaring, while Wick was the way his brother was inside, soft and idealistic, with maybe a touch of the poet in him, too. Try finding that in a drunk ward! Speaking of which, the scene when the lights goes out in the drunk ward is one of the best timed and directed scenes in the movie. It starts out quietly, with everyone in bed. Then a few mumblings can be heard round and about, and we see a worried look on Milland's face. The voices rise in intensity and reach a klnd of diabolical crescendo when a deep baritone breaks out in a frightening, manic laugh,--then all hell breaks loose--and the cockroach man is shrieking and the ward becomes a Dantesqe hell on wheels; in come the nurses, out scurries Ray. I don't think that the entire scene takes up more than five minutes of screen time, but having watched the movie so many times I just want to applaud for the mastery of its handling. This is virtuoso moviemaking, and I can't think of anything in Days Of Wine and Roses that can equal it (admittedly, I've only seen it once in its entirety). The later film is more sympathetic toward the Lemmon and Remick characters, but Edwards doesn't have Wilder's cold, detached, almost sadistic way of pulling back and showing things as they really are, albeit in a stylized manner. He seems almost too involved with his characters' emotions, while Wilder, ever the cynic, can at times see Milland just as the local bartender does: as a pathetic lush. Cruel, I admit, but true to life none the less.

I agree that the hide and seek business with Milland and the bottle isn't one of the film's highpoints. The relationship with lovely magazine editor Jane Wyman feels a little too close to the emotional equivalant of hitting the lottery for comfort. Had she not been around to be loving and nurturing, let's face it, Milland, at his advanced state of alcoholism, would have been staggering around the Bowery in less than a month's time. Also, even the kindest and most generous of brothers have their breaking points, and no doubt Wick had his, or would soon reach it, with his brother spiraling ever downward. There are definitely things wrong with The Lost Weekend. The music didn't bother me, though, and the use of the theremin in the DT's scene, with the bat and the mouse, nudges the movie in the direction of horror. Yet this too seems inspired on Wilder's part, as he showed himself capable of "switching genres", so to speak, at the virtual drop of a hat, to make a point, set a mood, show what a character was going through. Blake Edwards was more sincere, closer to the emotions his characters were going through, which is certainly commendable and shows that he had genuine empathy for the troubles his characters were experiencing, yet there was also an artlessness to his approach to his material. Wilder could be not only cynical but clinical, which gave him a wider latitude artistically speaking, as he seemed to personally have no emotional investment in his protagonist whatsoever! Tough love maybe, before its time, it also gave Wilder the freedom to fashion the film to suit his style, thus it has a kind of musicality to it, as it rises and falls, veers from despair to optimism, drunkenness to humiliation, then almost to near comedy, it lurches into horror movie territory a couple of times, then ends on a cautiously upbeat note.

In sum, comparing these two movies is like comparing apples and oranges. The earlier film is coolish, at times calculating; it presents its main character in a sympathetic light, yet keeps its distance from him; we can see the alcoholic almost as a psychiatrist would, which is to say from a safe distance. He is terribly damaged; we're always safe. We can even get a laugh or two at his expense, such as watching his discomfort at the opera. Days Of Wine and Roses is heartfelt, involved, empathetic; at times the movie itself feels so close to its main characters that it drags the viewer down with them. Or this viewer anyway. The Wilder film has the artistic edge for me due to the excellence of its presentation. It gives pleasure, less because its protagonist seems well on the road to recovery at the end than because it was such a good roller-coaster ride of a movie, The Edwards film is like one long downward slide; it offers lots of heart and soul but is made with less artistry.

Not to change the subject too drastically, but the best and most accurate movie depiction of alcoholism I've ever seen is Clean and Sober, made in the late eighties, featuring fine performances from Michael Keaton and Kathy Baker in the leading roles, it's better written than Days Of Wine and Roses, less stylishly brilliant than The Lost Weekend, and has more of the ring of truth to it than either.

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I have no problem suspending disbelief when I see an actor playing an alcoholic. What I see is an actor playing an alcoholic. Also, alcoholics, drunks, whatever you want to call them, come in all shapes, sizes and temperaments. Some are sly about their drinking; others obvious. There are the screamers and the ones who get drunk quietly in the dark when everybody's out of the house. There are alcoholics who behave as if they've just read just a diagnostic manual on character disorders and present themselves just like the authors say they should. But many don't. My mother was a depressive alcoholic who drank only late at night. I often had to take her to bed or she'd have fallen down. It was and still is a huge family secret. Only the immediate family knew about her condition, which basically killed her, quietly. Her sister, with whom she was very close, and who's still alive, adamently refuses to believe it. So do all my cousins, many of whom were regular visitors at the house, right to the end. No one suspected a thing, and if you try to tell them or even hint that there was ever a problem they pooh pooh it. As far as they're concerned she was a near saint, a perfect mother and housekeeper. It's we, the children, who are wrong. So I can believe just about any competent actor who takes on the role of an alcoholic, as alcoholics are themselves often very good at acting.

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You're welcome. My family's more the silent but deadly sort. I think they're the worst kind; in fact, I believe there are studies to back this up. It's terrible, the keeping secrets business, and neverending. As time goes by it almost doesn't matter what the original secret was. All that survives is lies and deceit. Well, on that cheery note...

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The greatest "drinking" film I've ever seen is a little-known gem from '51 called COME FILL THE CUP. Sometimes melodramatic but features magnificent performances by James Cagney and Gig Young.

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I think that the greenhouse scene was a little overdone, but I want to take you back to a similiar scene in The Lost Weekend. Ray Milland is frantically searching for his hidden bottle of alcohol, like Lemmon in Days of Wine and Roses. Though the actual performance is fine, the music is what ruined it for me. I'm a huge music lover and I think that when score or a pop song is put into a certain scene it can have a wonderful affect, but if it's too overdone or done too often, it can take something away from the already fine scene. I think that's what ruined it for me in The Lost Weekend. The music was trying to make the film more dramatic than it already was. I know it's a small part of the film, but it stood out for me.
Interestingly, I had this same reaction to the music in The Days of Wine and Roses, first and foremost the stunningly poor choice to start the movie with the eponymous Henry Mancini/Johnny Mercer song. I know this song won the movie's only Oscar, and was a very popular stand-alone song on the radio and in the record stores. However, I think that starting the movie with it does permanent damage to the rest of the movie--that it immediately sets a bizarre, frivolous, Muzak-y tone that is completely and detrimentally inconsistent with what I think they were trying to go for in the movie itself.

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Just goes to show you how subjective music is. I find the title song very melancholy and downbeat, despite the somewhat sweet choral interpretation. Maybe I always think of Carmen MacRae's sob-inducing rendition I heard live many years ago.
"We're fighting for this woman's honor, which is more than she ever did."

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1) The most 'dated' quality I found in the film was 'services' for alcoholics as portrayed (other than the typical 'dating' that occurs because so much time as passed since this movie was made).

2) I like ‘Days of Wine and Roses’ better than ‘The Lost Weekend’, but both are fine films.

3) I have seen 'altered' folks being treated horribly by other people (in reference to the man laughing while pouring the alcohol over Jack L.’s character). In addition, I think this scene could be a reference to what some, for lack of a better term, 'winos' have experienced (being kicked, spat on, teased, even set on fire), thus equating Jack L.'s character with being like a 'wino' at that point, and was also seen through the character’s point of view, with the man bending over him and the liquor splashing all over his face, which, given his character’s state of mind and his current condition, would appear a bit 'exaggerated'.

4) Some people think the 'jumping on a mattress scene' and the 'greenhouse scene' are somewhat overdone. I wonder what these folks would think about some experiences I have had (second-hand) that would make these scenes pale in comparison. When most, if not all, inhibition is lost and/or a person is walking/talking but in black-out mode, it is no wonder that very odd behavior can result.

5) We *do* see some of the allure of drinking for the characters -- the first time Lee R.'s character has a drink, the 'roach-spraying' scene, and, yes, the jumping up and down on the mattress scene. These experiences may not be our cup of tea, but the roach-spraying scene is also paired with their first kiss, so their relationship is seen as further developing as their drinking is also developing (of course, Jack's character was further along the drinking trajectory than Lee's character at the time). When Jack's character is doing the 'striptease' with the bottles strapped to his leg, you can practically get a contact high from what the characters were portrayed as feeling -- much like the ritual and needle high heroin users get prior to injecting the drug. Maybe not alluring to us, but appeared alluring to their characters.

6) I think this movie did a great job of depicting two different kinds of alcoholics, and how their paths first converged and then ultimately diverged. As one poster stated, alcoholics and their experiences come in all different stripes and flavors (and, speaking to that, I don't see how anyone can say ‘this’ or ‘that’ is NOT how drunken behavior is, as it can be as varied as the day is long), and I thought the comparison between the two characters in this regard was very well done.

7) Although I understand the reason for it, I actually found the ongoing narration by Ray M. in ‘The Lost Weekend’ a bit distracting. I preferred the feelings and emotions expressed outwardly, between characters, as was done in ‘Days of Wine and Roses’.

8) Some think ‘Days of Wine and Roses’ is too judgmental. I don’t know what ‘too judgmental’ means when witnessing the experiences that this couple goes through and what ultimately occurs, which I found very realistically portrayed.

"I can't stand a naked light bulb, any more than..a rude remark or a vulgar action" Blanche DuBois

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Six years later, and I have the movie on my list to watch again, after recently coming across some interesting articles about it.

Hopefully I have a better time with it on this go! And thanks to all who responded over the last six years, evidently I started a can of worms situation with some of you!

Robert Altman
1925-2006
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I really enjoyed reading your postings :)

I love reading thoughtful comments and good analyses about movies --

Cheers!



"I can't stand a naked light bulb, any more than..a rude remark or a vulgar action" Blanche DuBois

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My 2¢

Jack Lemmon has been a favorite of mine for many years. His work in GLEN GARY GLEN ROSS is extraordinary .

Blake Edwards is also a favorite of mine. More for his comedies but I think a very good director.

I found the first half of this film to be over done, melodramatic, poorly directed. It felt like a romantic comedy at the beginning and then the conversion to drunkeness just felt over the top and dated. Lemmon was doing his stuttering comic persona and it seemed out of place. And his two breakdowns just seemed over the top,

However, just at the time Jack Klugman shows up, the whole film seemed to find its voice and really clicked. Lemmons performance became quite subdued and heartbreakingly real. Remick I thought was very believable throughout the film but more so at the end. With the drunken histrionics behind them, I found the last half hour or so to be very well done. Dramatic, believable and pretty darn depressing.

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Probably.

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It's dated 1962. I don't expect to see cell phones and facebook pages in this movie.

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