Yes, he wasted the Jaguar (by running it over the cliff, not by personalizing it).
But in his case, it was a lot more about fighting against his mother's control and manipulation, and her complete lack of respect for his individuality.
Buying him a brand new sports car would be a wonderful, generous gesture if not for her motives, and how she so obnoxiously just had his old hearse thrown away like it was crap when it was something that he obviously liked a lot.
The fact that she obviously realized he would never drive the Jag if his old car was still around made it clear it was for her benefit, not his.
I think all of his faked death scenarios were his bizarre way of telling her, "You're killing me, Ma!" at her never-ending attempts to make him what she wanted him to be, utterly oblivious to his wants and needs and personality.
The scene where she was filling out the form for the computer matchmaker company was very telling. She was filling the entire thing out with zero input from him, completely assuming he would think and respond exactly as she would to each question.
Then, midway through, she seemingly forgot she was supposedly speaking for him, however incorrectly, and was literally answering what she personally thought and liked, as if she were finding a match for herself, rather than finding a daughter-in-law for herself.
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