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The three guys are obessed

posted 15 years ago by pvchick32001
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The 3 men are obsessed with Mary. I understand the one guy who is her dad, but what other excuse do the other guys have? Yeah, they have known her for 6 years but still. It's weird. What say do they have about how she lives her life? It's creepy how they miss her a lot, like you can't be away from her, basically you can't live without her? You would not talk about her when they threw that party & have music playing that she likes. They have nothing better to do but think about her all day long? Lets just say they are over obsessed & it's really weird.

[–] stench_blossom 15 years ago

get over it

BAT DAD KNOWS NO FEAR, BAT DAD KNOWS NO PAIN

[–] flashpenguin86 15 years ago

Sounds as though you might be a little obsessed over them being obsessed---which is kinda creepy. :)

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[–] hanlonodavid 15 years ago

this is a harmless feelgood film.christ stop reaing other things into it

[–] paperdoll86 15 years ago

I think it's lovely. WE live in a world of "baby daddies" where men don't give a damn even if it IS their kids and here is not only the father understanding his responsibility but these other two men forming fatherly attachments to her.

My father was not in my life, but I was watched over in a similar way, though not in the same house, with my paternal grandfather, two of my maternal great-uncles, and my godfather. Sometimes, people just see it as somehow their responsibility.

I'm sorry you don't seem to love anyone that much that you want to take care of them.

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[–] stench_blossom 14 years ago

if they weren't obsessed there'd be no story for the movie and the people who made it wouldn't have made millions of dollars! thats why these guys are obsessed!! also, I agree with paperdoll86 100 percent as i've had a similar upbringing!

BAT DAD KNOWS NO FEAR, BAT DAD KNOWS NO PAIN

[–] monique79-1 14 years ago

It's called growing a bond with a child you've lived with for almost six years even if they are not biologically yours.

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[–] spunkygirl222001 13 years ago

It's called caring about somebody. Try is sometimes and then you'll understand.

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[–] randydidit 12 years ago

yeah - you cant understand unless you've loved a kid.

[–] lil_miss_independent92 12 years ago

Seriously? Ummm being a big part of a child's life for 6 years...I'm sure I would miss them like crazy too. Not to mention all three of the men raised her because the mother left Mary with them. It's not crazy at all...it's called love.

"In Vino Veritas"

[–] dragonstephen-1 10 years ago

if you take care of a kid who isn't yours u still form an attachment , you don't have to be genetically linked, they still might see you as family too

coon and friends alert , coon and friends alert , im so seriously