how do you think jedi feel about the force users out there
that don’t join the jedi order?
shareFrankly, I assume it's a combination of contempt and mistrust. Contempt because they probably assume that the non-Jedi Force-sensitives aren't nearly as powerful or as well-trained as the Jedi, and mistrust because whoever they are, they aren't following the Jedi rules. And look where following Jedi rules and supporting the Jedi Order power structure gets you...
I'm sure there's been loads of fan-fiction written about non-Jedi Force-user orders and the OC's they spawn, like the "Nightsisters" from "Clone Wars".