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Why I like You've Got Mail


On an entirely different page of an entirely different movie, someone asked me why I would recommend You've Got Mail. While some of the below appears in other threads on this page, here is the answer I gave:

1. It's an unabashed, unapologetic romantic comedy, and a prototype for Hallmark Channel.
2. Its paradoxical world-view. It's BOTH very nostalgic for a long-vanished past, yet also very forward-facing: "the future is now".
3. All of the actors give excellent, believable performances of nuanced, quirky characters.
4. No anger, violence, hysteria, screaming.
5. It's a time capsule that perfectly captures what the late 1990s were like in a big American city (in this case, NYC).
6. It's not a role-model movie: there's no affirmation / validation / empowerment lessons. It simply tells the story it has to tell, and moves on.
7. The premise sets up a wide-open horizon of potential futures. There was never any sequel, but it's fascinating to think about how the characters would have gone forward with their lives after the end of the movie and where they would be today if they were real people.

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Just watch The Shop Around the Corner instead.

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You're Got Mail isn't REALLY a remake of The Shop Around the Corner. Only one scene really fits that bill. We watch both movies back-to-back every year as part of our seasonal list, even though YGM isn't really a Christmas movie. In fact, since they flipped the seasons from Shop, it could be called more of a summer movie. :-) We've watched it 20 or more times now, and I still choke up when he says, "as long as we both shall live". LOTS of good things about this movie. The conversation in the boat cabin is brilliant.

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I watch this movie every year on New Year's Eve. I don't remember exactly how that started, but somehow, it works!

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7. They lived happily ever after. I will accept no other possibility.

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8. I like getting emails at the time.

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Because Dave Chapelle is in it?

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