Now i know he shouldn't have asked her the way he did, and that to reject someone is almost equal as painful as being rejected, but when you think about it, its really a luxury problem. Being asked out means that the one asking you out is opening their heart to get to you, they are the one sacrificing something to you. If i need to reject someone, i of course get nervous and find it hard to find something good to say back, but she didn't even try to understand the situation.
Precisely, Julius. It's a terrifically hard scene to watch, but it should be, for two reasons:
1. We're seeing the situation from Charlie's POV, and he would certainly amplify (x1000!) any shame or humiliation that she might make him feel. It's just in his nature. See every other scene in the film for examples of this. :)
2. A great many young women (and men) aren't good with vulnerability (the one thing I've learned beyond a certainty as a high school teacher). It tends to make a lot of folks act like damned fools, not to mention discourteous louts. If she had been just a bit younger, she might've rolled her eyes and said "wah-oooooooow, that's awkward". Great way to defuse said awkwardness, no?
I think the effectiveness of this scene should convince any remaining nay-sayers of Nic Cage's acting skill; the scene (and the film) works because we forget that he's an A-list movie star and accept him as pseudo-Kaufman. If a waitress blew off leather-jacketed Cage in action hero mode, it'd just seem ludicrous.
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