completely agree, that scene should be part of any fine arts acting program of how to have a range of emotions.
since bette didn't "deal" with tina having a miscarriage, that just brought every emotion stewing to the surface. want to know what it looks like for somebody crack in one fell swoop? there it is.
and yes, i would also agree that the fae buckley character realizes she went to far by attempting to comfort bette.