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Family reaction to boy's death.


My reaction when I discover I'm out of cigarettes is more dramatic than that. Is that really how people react to a kids death in UK? Lol.

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Seemed pretty dramatic to me. What did you expect? General Hospital or Days of our Lives? Real people don't act like they're in a soap opera.

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This is how they react after they told them about the boy.
http://s28.postimg.org/izy4kmn0t/shock.png



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Actually, the mom saw his body on the beach before that and was freaking out. That scene was just confirmation of something they already knew in their hearts. So at that point they were in shock. When my sister died, I just sat in stunned silence for about 2 hours.

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But then again: what would be the right reaction? Would they all explode? Usually the first expression in such a case is a totally blank face.
I hate the soapish overacting which does not reflect real life at all, and for that show underacting made more sense as everybody had to wonder what it means for them.

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How has no one pointed this out before? The picture above shows their reaction moments before Danny's death was confirmed. After they are told the body on the beach was indeed Danny's, they all react just as you'd expect - absolute devastation and unabashed crying. How can you not remember Beth's reaction?! It was one of the most heartbreaking things I've ever seen. Did you even watch the show or were you clinging on to something to be clever about?

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The reaction was very genuine. Are you from Hollywood?

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What grief? I was talking about the first shock, the first reaction to the announcement. Anyway, I thought it was a cold reaction but probably it wasn't. Besides, after having watched the whole thing, it now makes more sense why (if) they acted cold.

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It was far far more poignant than the reaction of the family in the American version, Gracepoint.

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I am not sure what you expected. Looked natural to me. People react different and rarely in real life people scream and panic like they do in most over-directed films.

I can safely say that least this part of Europe where I come from - absorbing news, blank face and staring into empty is normal reaction. The panic and shock wave may follow later, in private.

I have never understood the overreaction in many american films and TV shows. It's not how people normally would react. Not even in US (when we base that on documentaries like The shift).

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Well probably there are cultural differences and that's what I really ment to point out in my first post. Basically, it seemed a bit strange to me to watch them hug each other sitting in the sofa. Where I come from for example, when a person first hears that his/her kid was murdered and probably raped, well, our common reaction is closer to what people here call "hollywood reaction" or "overly-exaggerated/overdramatic reaction". I don't blame hollywood, to me it's very realistic to be extremely shocked to these news. The bad think in hollywood is that most actors are not really good at acting and such a dramatic scene may actually look ridiculous.

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Indeed. Not to mention top of cultural differences we have peoples own particularities. And I find it nice to learn about different cultures and cinema and TV is good way to travel further. And at times what we believe to be artistic failure, appears to be true and natural for the country or region where film/show is made.

The 'cool' reaction does not mean any less shock and I could say that not being able to scream and panic shows how deep the shock may be. lack of strong emotions may be related on the way of showing "disbelief" - "No, no.. no... this person is not harmed, or dead... " and here disbelief is expressed more closer to the way you saw on Broadchurch. I am not from UK myself. In fact I am 1800 KM away from it, but I was able to relate to the way it was shown. I didn't question it for a moment.

Many UK shows have the same way of showing grief with occasional bursts to cry, where people are calmed down by someone. But rarely you have someone "do the Hollywood thing" and it's safe to say, yes its how 'they do it'.

But then again even in Europe, when you go towards south - more extreme emotions are likely shown.

I have never came to think that "Hollywood reaction" is real one somewhere, and every time I saw it in films I've kind of linked it to bad directing or overacting. And maybe this is why often EU cinema feels too distant (or hard to relate) for some, while US cinema feels over-dramatic to us on many occasions.

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Please don't take this the wrong way, but are you black? I've seen many news reports where a young black male is killed and the females do the stereotypical collapse, literally, into a screeching, fainting mess. I see this in many stories from the Middle East and Arab countries, too. Maybe it's a cultural thing.

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Please don't take this the wrong way, but are you black? I've seen many news reports where a young black male is killed and the females do the stereotypical collapse, literally, into a screeching, fainting mess.
Seriously? SMH

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Seriously. Watch the news.

Life is pain. Anyone who says differently is selling something.

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Seriously. Watch the news.
I do watch the news, and as a Black person, it offends me that anyone would think that's the way most/all Black people behave. It's like saying that "hide your kids/hide your wife" idiot represents all Black males. I don't know ANY that behave like that.

I would also add that there's no good/right way to grieve. People react differently.

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Whaaa.

Life is pain. Anyone who says differently is selling something.

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This is exactly how most people in my country(i don't live in an European country) react, when we do cry it's by ourselves or in our homes.

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I agree with angedelamusique. I thought it seemed very natural. I feel like that's probably how I would react when I first heard the news. There might be some yelling later and definitely more tears, once I got over the initial shock.

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Seemed natural and realistic to me. And I'm from Greece. And yes, I have experienced loss.

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I actually agree woth OP. Family's reaction was so poor and underacted, I didn't even realize the boy was their son throughout first two episodes. I thought they were just babysitting him or something.

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This bugged me too. It will be a soul crushing experience for any parent. How can a mother be clam and contained even if she has seen the body earlier! Also, I couldn't digest how pregnant (in early stages) mother can sprint like she is preparing for Olympics. Acting was good in this one (season 1). However, the quality of dialogues were really inconsistent; in the same episode, in a scene, dialogues are brilliant and in the next scene, they are plain silly! The finale was just as dump as they come. I had doubts earlier but I really thought they would do it better! Not all worth above 7-7.5 IMO

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