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Female Bodybuilders are so...


..um.. I've got nothing.

I mean, has any man ever lusted for female bodybuilders? Are they seen as sexy?

Why are there female bodybuilders? Even male bodybuilding is focusing in the wrong thing, but at least it's understandable from the 'strong man' perspective. A strong man can provide, gather resources, dominate, protect his woman (at least as an idea, not necessarily in the real world).

No woman in the world has ever 'given it' to a man just because of the man's physical strength, big muscles, etc.

The thing is, women's sexuality works in such a weird and different way, it's easy to fool yourself into thinking looks matter to it. They don't, AT ALL.

However, 'pre-selection' and other forms of status do. Women also project a lot, so when they see a muscle-bound hero, the woman doesn't just see the muscles, she sees a thousand different things. She sees celebrity status, she sees crowds cheering for him, she sees a high-status man.

But you can't hug or grope 'status', because it's an elusive, abstract concept (and yet very powerful), women think they are attracted to the muscles.

In any case, muscles alone are not enough - you can be the most musclebound nerd ever, but you're not getting laid, because in the end, it's just not what turns women on. If you act like a nerd, don't approach women, don't have any actual form of status (wealth, celebrity, prisoner, 'bad boy', alpha, PUA, etc. etc.), you are going to remain a virgin, regardless of your muscles.

So it's focusing on the wrong thing, if you are doing it to attract a mate.

Sidenote: To me, it's ridiculous to explode your muscles to be so massive in any case, because it hinders your movement, it's purely materialistic ego-thing, offers no real benefit in the real world, even in fights (should you be apelike enough to do that), and spiritually thinking, it's best to focus on cultivating your inner, eternal self, than your temporary physical body, plus, it's a symptom of a maniacal 'extremism' worship - even Bruce Lee, although fitness freak, recognized that it's not the SIZE, it's the FUNCTIONALITY of muscles, so he kept his small, but marblelike in hardness.

Fat isn't healthy, either, but at least it shows you have something higher-level going on in your life than focusing on the physical body so much, although maybe then you're worshipping food, which is just as insane.

Now, men can get SOME benefit from being muscular, we can debate how big this effect is and bring anecdotal evidence into the mix, but women?

Women may think they are attracted to muscular men, but they're always attracted to status instead - many muscular men just happen to have status as well (it's the same kind of loop as handsome man THINKS his looks make him attractive, which makes him confident, which makes him attractive, and both genders think it was the looks).

Women then project, and think men are also attracted to muscular women (they're not), then they start bodybuilding (though for what reason? Women can just pick'n'choose from a plethora of men every day without building one muscle)... and the result is.. what?

I mean, 'Strong Woman' is always problematic, because it's inherently so against the biology and instincts of a woman, and it adds nothing to how attractive the woman is, and thus how much sexual-social power the woman wields in the world.

Cute women are protected by the world, men, governments, corporations way more than 'strong, muscular women'. Didn't they know that?

So, men are not attracted to supermuscular women, society gives them less power, what's the benefit? What's the reason? I never understood this, I always saw it as a grotesque quirk, a freakshow with weird people, like a circus act. I never saw why anyone would DO that..

I am only making this post to add to my previous post about the problems of 'Strong Women' - it's a problem exactly because women's action points are put to different places. Men's are almost completely to 'strength' and 'being able to take hardships' (and many men can't anyway, so they commit more suicides than women).

Women's action points are just as powerful, the power is just ELSEWHERE, not in the physical or psychological realm. Women's power is the facade of weakness, men's weakness is the facade of power, as someone once said.

A weak woman is protected, that's power. A weak man has no choice but to commit a suicide.

A strong man can make it in the world, but a strong woman? Women already have power, they don't have to become physically strong as well.

Let's use an example to clarify: A female student can either open her legs to the professor, or ace the test. Regardless of how this sounds, this is a real-world power and options almost every single woman has in the world.

A male student can either ace the test or ... well, that's his ONLY option.


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Women always have an easy way out of almost any situation, men don't. Men only have the 'hard work' and 'strong' option, there's no 'fallback option'.

Women have not only one 'fallback option', but multiple ones. For example, 'Princess Morbucks' in 'The Powerpuff Girls' always gets her 'daddy' to do anything she wants and get money and power that way.

It doesn't have to be that direct and extreme, a woman can have 27 different men doing her different favors for free just by her blinking her eyes at them. Sure, for some men, eyeblinking is not enough, but opening your legs once a month to pay your rent is easier than working 8 hours a day in a smelly sewer or a stress-filled cubicle to do the same.

Women have like 80 'fallback options' before they end up on the streets. Men have nothing, they can be kicked into the streets at any moment. The second a man loses his job, his apartment and car, that's it. If he can't find another apartment (which is hard without a job), he is basically doomed. Now, there ARE programs in some countries that still lift up the man to eventually get him some kind of cheap place, but you have to live extended periods with criminals and junkies to get to that point, and that's not safe, because men are not protected.

Glass ceiling is much talked about, glass floor - not so much. In any case, women have so many options to do something, men only have one.

So why would a woman work hard to climb the corporate ladder (especially since the cheat code is always RIGHT THERE, ready to be used) legitimately, or work in sewers to pay the rent, or study for the test, when she can just use her tremendous power (that we're not supposed to talk about, and it doesn't have to go all the way to 'the thing', there are so many different levels of feminine power, from blinking eyes to giving massages before it even has to lead to anything sexual) to do those things?

So why would a woman become a bodybuilder? It's hard work with no benefit.

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Maybe some women enjoy being bodybuilders and are doing it for themselves. It doesn't have to be about men or what benefit they may get.

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A female student can either open her legs to the professor, or ace the test.

If she was a female bodybuilder the professor would tell her to close her legs and go hit the books. Gross.

That was one hell of a meandering you did there, I think you hit your point in the first few sentences and then for some reason kept going.
Male and female bodybuilding is a form of body dysmorphia, guys do it more for other guys than for getting women. They once got a dopamine hit because someone complemented their physique at the gym and it was off to the races after that. I'm not sure why women do it, but they were probably seen as a tomboy growing up and had trouble with guys and at some point started working out and received a compliment about their deltoids and again it was off to the races.

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I find female body builders super sexy. Amy Fadhli was a big time favorite of mine back in high school. A lot of the WWE Divas especially like Torrie Wilson and Trish Status too. Muscle really helps to show a woman's curves off.

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I remember Amy Fadhli. She was a damned attractive woman, but she was one of those women who is insanely attractive anyway, The muscles were just a bonus (if you were into them).

Btw, I keep saying 'she was' - for all I know she still is!

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