I completely understand this philosophy. Crying - even screaming, has taught people (evolutionarily and in terms of survival) that "trouble is near, so come quick" or "hey pack/herd, come help me with this danger that is upon me". Some people have an extreme aversion to this. I am one of those people.
It sounds like this OP has a version of what I suffer from.
Was the action of the movie more annoying than sad to folks? It struck me more as sad. I was only annoyed by the fact that it made me sad. Make sense? The whimpering felt spot-on.
So, all the whimpering and screaming - and all that "no no no no -don't go- no no nooooo" stuff actually went pretty far in upsetting me. I didn't run away crying or anything but I was just watching it saying "ughhhhh I guess I'll need to watch some stand up comedy before I go to bed just to serve as a palette cleanser." And that is what I did because I found that I had quite a bit of empathy for the characters, especially the little girl but the Mom too. Both actresses were absolutely excellent. Some of their exchanges were stunningly dark.
In this movie, I found several instances of an extremely believable version of what I imagine it would be like to be helplessly tending to an injured or dying loved one. From that angle I thought it was an extremely sad and depressing movie. More so even, than scary. A good movie, indeed a scary movie, but one that I don't want to see ever again. There were a few times while watching it where I got up and told my S.O. not to pause it, and to not worry about filling me in when I get back to the room.
Ended up making it through the film. Turning it off as the credits rolled and I could hear the mother and daughter yelling at each other muffled through a wall. yep, director. Thanks. We get it.
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