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Awkwardly hard to watch scene

posted 11 years ago by revsader
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The baby naming party scene was truly one of the hardest and most painful scenes to watch. Just something about someone so deluded and crazy facing harsh reality that hurts to see someone go through. I don't feel bad for the character, because she created all her own problems, but I certainly do not enjoy seeing anyone go through an experience like that. I am pretty sure the writer wanted exactly that to happen in the scene, and that's understandable. Charlize sure did a great job of making me very uncomfortable.

[–] NeedysBoy 11 years ago

"Maybe it's another dimension. Or, you know, just really deep." --Needy

[–] rthecoast17-503-401597 11 years ago

I couldn't look at the screen I felt so uneasy

[–] Megan4KSU 11 years ago

I know I shouldn't be looking at the message boards while I'm watching the movie but this scene is about to start and I don't know if I can watch it! LOL I hate uncomfortable scenes!!!!

[–] yodels 9 years ago

WOW
I'm not the only one.
I couldn't look at the screen too...
and I wet my eyes a little at that baby naming scene and when Mavis undressed in Matt's room..

I feel bad for her

[–] rthecoast17-503-401597 11 years ago

Now that you have probably watched it.What do you think?

[–] Megan4KSU 11 years ago

I could watch the train wreck because it was fascinating. What a freakin mess of a person! Don't feel one bit sorry for her. Wish they would've ripped her a new one! Okay, I know that's harsh and she needed help but how can you be so blind!

I don't really know what to think of the movie. Thank goodness for Patton Oswalt's character.

[–] BunnyCake 11 years ago

Don't feel one bit sorry for her.

When she admitted in front of everyone that she had "Buddy's miscarriage" it sounds like they were planning a future together but it went downhill. So now she views his wife as having what she "should" have had. Kind of pitiful when you think about it.

Last night at the dance, my little brother paid a buck to see your underwear.

[–] NeedysBoy 11 years ago

SheIsSoRetro writes: "So now she views his wife as having what she "should" have had. Kind of pitiful when you think about it."

Yes. That's it exactly.

Mavis can be seen as a sacrifice for Beth.

"Maybe it's another dimension. Or, you know, just really deep." --Needy

[–] Lady_Elaine_Fairchild 9 years ago

So I felt it was in bad taste to send the picture originally let alone invite her to the party. She's no angel but they were rubbing her nose in it ..yea?

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[–] rthecoast17-503-401597 11 years ago

To me what made it awkward was that his wife was so nice to her and her own parents were there. If this was real life do you think her and Patton would have kept in touch? PS does KSU mean Kansas State?

[–] Megan4KSU 11 years ago

Yeah, I don't understand why they didn't stop her. Maybe she just needed to hit rock bottom. Hope that was it!

Yes, I went to K-State when I created this sign on at least 10 years ago. But I ended up at Wichita State. Go shockers! :-)

[–] veronicawindle 11 years ago

Omg, so many awkwardly hard to watch scenes but the movie was good, Charlize did great, and it makes me cringe to think that people and situations like this really exist and happen! The movie made you sensitive to the sadness of it, shocked, embarrassed, but laugh and hope for them as well.

[–] Dani119 11 years ago

Wow Megan4KSu, that's kind of harsh saying you don't feel one bit sorry for Mavis after watching that scene. You're supposed to finally have some insight into why her character is behaving the way she does throughout the movie. Everybody else here already explained it really well though. I dunno, it's called "empathy."

[–] lockon_stratos 11 years ago

Mavis is beyond redemption. The next step is suicide for her unless she can do something drastic to help herself. She was terrible for messing up the party. So I don't feel sorry for her.

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[–] slamadamonth 11 years ago

suicide? comeon. id like to think that party and subsequent sleeping with matt aftwards was her rock bottom and she would finally get better and not deal with her depression in the same way.

but yes that scene was incredibly difficult to watch but it was amazing to see theron pull it off.

the only thing that was weird for me was to see mavis' parents there. why would they be there in the first place? maybe it was truly a small town.

[–] r-taylor13-848-416837 11 years ago

No, she isn't going to change. That is the whole point of Sandra's speech, and another reason I love the end. She doesn't have some lame epiphany and go through a Hollywood type of transformation, where she suddenly becomes a good person. She is the popular high school girl for life, and will just continue on in her alcoholic, bitchy ways. I think the one thing she did learn though is to forget Buddy, and just Mercury in general.

[–] HalBanksy 9 years ago

What a horrible comment. I hope nobody close to you suffers a mental breakdown and has to look to you for support.

[–] lockon_stratos 9 years ago

This is not about me. It's about people who are very troubled and can't even help themselves to begin with and has no one who wants to help them.

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[–] HalBanksy 9 years ago

You obviously have never had to face truly hard times, and have never had to look to others for help. Good for you! Remember what goes around comes around...

[–] lockon_stratos 9 years ago

ok

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[–] IcySpoon 8 years ago

Mavis is far too narcissistic and delusional to consider commit suicide.

"Eventually, all things merge into one, and a river runs through it." Norman Maclean

[–] lockon_stratos 8 years ago

Maybe a death wish

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[–] Slogutis 11 years ago

That scene and the blowjob conversation scene made me cringe.

[–] ciffou 11 years ago

Yes. I guess we have to compliment the director because it wasn't over the top but it was painful to watch for me as well.

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[–] iheartnormi 9 years ago

I know it might seem crazy but when ever they showed her pulling out her hair. Right from the beginning scene I knew that was what she was doing, and I hate when people do that..like NO!!! Just stop! please.