Good grief! I had no idea - I never look - so many had posted replies (not all of them terribly kind) to my original.
I read your comments with interest and much agreement*.
Re "charitable deeds", yes, far too many want to be seen to be doing something for their own sake. Some, however, (and I write as someone now a PR whizz and with some charity work under my belt) might be public about their activities to garner more interest for the cause. Ultimately, I feel, it is all spin and however much they believe in what they support, they know, too, that it won't hurt the TV ratings, book sales, record sales & c.
"...the spectacle after her death was bordering insanity."
Succinctly and accurately put. It was mass hysteria and more damaging than many might have predicted. Barely a death (helps if the deceased is female, white and pretty, naturally), especially an accident or a criminal act, occurs without the (once) Great British Public joining in with the grief of the family, without feeling itself a "victim" and without finding it seemingly absolutely necessary to post "RIP" on social media sites for someone either unknown to them or known only through the dead person's celebrity status.
It is not compassion or empathy that drives people to mourn so much for an unknown person. It is, perhaps:
Fundamental dissatisfaction with their lives
Absence of a religion, or rather, one that they find "satisfactory", thereby putting rather ordinary (although not necessarily terribly nice) celebs, designers, musicians, political leaders into a position of being worshipped
Media hype
Still, it makes good business for local florists when a death occurs.
The reaction many had to the death of Steve Jobs was similar to the reaction many had to the death of Michael Jackson.
Jobs was, above all else, a hard-nosed capitalist who wanted to make pots of money. He was not a lovey-dovey hippy who only wanted to make the world happy. Michael Jackson was at best weird and at worst a paedophile. And, subjectively, his music was crap.
We have Jobs.
We have Jackson.
We have Jong. Kim Jong Il, of course.
We laugh or watch bemused the scenes of grief that the North Koreans displayed to the death of KJI. Was this outpouring of sorrow really any different to that given to Steve Jobs or Michael Jackson? Not really, and in many ways more understandable. One would not be shot/sent to prison for failing to mourn sufficiently for a computer designer or a rather creepy singer...
*Diana and Mother Theresa died eight days apart. Jeffrey Bernard, the (in)famous English journo and drinker once remarked words to this effect:
"No one will notice when I pop off; it will be just my luck to die a few days after the Queen Mother and a few days before Mother Theresa."
Well, he died a week after Diana and a day before Mother Theresa.
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