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The relationship was not believable at all.


While it is true that young attractive woman fall for men nearly twice their age, that guy generally has to be attractive in some way. Stewart's character was not attractive in anyway. Never bought it, and it hurt the film.

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I didn't like it because he was mean to her throughout the film and constantly told her to shut up. He used her and then expected her to disappear after he was done using her. The character was a bitter, ungrateful, and rude person. I do not understand why she stuck around, vying for his attention when he clearly was a jerk.


I think that you should see Rear Window again, as it proves to be surprisingly feminist in its orientation, almost as if Hitchcock was suggesting that the joke was on his critics, not him. Jeff is disdainful of Lisa for awhile, but ultimately, he neither uses her nor controls her. In fact, he loses control of her, as she becomes the most active, dynamic, spontaneous, risk-taking person in the film, far more so than the men (Jeff and sluggish Lieutenant Doyle). By the end, she is literally the person in the relationship wearing the pants. And the more active and assertive that Lisa becomes, the more that Jeff admires her and truly falls in love with her.

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That's what I used to think, but now I think that there is something very appealing about Older Gentlemen.

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This is Grace Kelly husband http://princessgracekelly.tumblr.com/post/1231736269/grace-kelly-and-f uture-husband-prince-rainier

Jimmy Stewart was handsome man all his life. It will never happen for you but it can for some old men. Jimmy Stewart is one of them. Beautiful young women are with plain looking men. Sometimes older plain looking men. What your saying makes no sense. lol

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Stewart looked old and it distracted me. I wasn't thinking that he was too old, but he did look awfully old (and unattractive as well).

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Stewart looked old and it distracted me. I wasn't thinking that he was too old, but he did look awfully old (and unattractive as well).


I think everyone who uses the word "unattractive" to describe Jimmy Stewart needs glasses.

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I'm a man and he's not exactly repulsive looking to me. Jimmy was the equivalent of Tom Hanks back in the day. Certainly, we don't think of Tom Hanks as an old, repulsive guy. Let's be objective. Neither Jimmy nor Tom have super model looks. But, it's their wholesome, trustworthy screen presence that makes them attractive.

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Well, since movies are chiefly made by men we shouldn't be too surprised that they cater to male fantasies. That's why they often paired Grace Kelly with much older men.
In real life, of course, Jeff ought to consider himself pretty lucky for that catch…and the longer I think about it the more it seems that Thorwald married pretty well, too. Shrewish antics aside, Anna is quite lovely: Young (well, younger than he), blonde, cuts a nice figure in a neglige…


To be fair she was being rude to him by constantly interrupting him when he was trying to speak. The only way to get her to quiet was to tell her to shut up. Just because she didn't raise her voice doesn't mean she wasn't being rude. I don't fell bad for her because she kept coming back. No one forced her to go back over and over.

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Anyone who finds the relationship in this movie 'not believable' has a very shallow and/or naive view of relationships between men and women.
I've seen more than a few young, beautiful women hooked up with older, rather average looking men. It's not always about looks and blatant charm/charisma. There are other reasons for people to connect and feel affection. Also, to make out that James Stewart was not attractive in any way is laughable. He was one of the biggest stars on the planet. And I didn't find his character lacking in charm either.
I guess the original poster and the others agreeing expect all pretty girls to end up with a Zac Efron lookalike. Gotta love IMDB for outing these fools.

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