I absolutely LOVED the book and was so invested in the story that when Ted learned Joanna had won custody, I threw the book across the room. I couldn't stand it. I left it lying there for three days before I could make myself pick it up, because I knew I had to see how he would ever, ever, say goodbye to his son.
I was very happy with the adaptation for the screen and they did a good job of it. I remember saying at the time that it wasn't as fairly done as the book had been, because the first part of the book is ALL Joanna, and you can see her slowly going crazy with this child in this apartment in this life. And you can see that Ted isn't really listening to her frustration. So when she walks, you understand it.
Since the movie started the way it did, you can't ever feel as much for Joanna as you do for Ted and Billy. But there are wonderful lines throughout the novel that don't make it into the film, and they added a poignant richness to it...the scene where Ted tries to explain to Billy what the new living arrangement will be, and the innocent questions as the child tries to understand until finally Ted is thinking, "Oh Jesus, I don't think I can do this."
And the final scene in the elevator....where Joanna asks if she can see Billy sometimes, he thinks that he could annihilate her with just one word, and she would go away and never come back. But he can't bring himself to do it, because, you know, neither of them are bad people. Maybe they were bad together, but they are each trying to do their best, and they each love their child.
Best of all....the novel ends with one of the most perfect lines ever: "It turned out to be an ordinary day. They went to the park and played monkeys, had Burger King for dinner, went back home, and Ted Kramer got to keep his son."
So, to make a long story short: I wanted Ted to win, because I knew that he had learned what he needed to be the kind of parent Billy needed in a way that Joanna still had not, and maybe was never capable of being.
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